Even though it is great to be single, sometimes you want someone to ask you how your day is, and to have someone nearby when you need it most. Sometimes you get tired of doing everything yourself and want to have a man you can count on. There are times when you lack the feeling of butterflies in your stomach, and you would like to have a little passion in your life. That experience is completely natural from time to time. But when those moments come, it is crucial to remember that a relationship is not a cure for loneliness.
Flirting with guys until you find the right one is always a better way. Bored is still better than wasting all your energy and time trying to read between the lines. It’s better than playing with your heart and mind.
Sleeping peacefully at night is better than receiving his drunk phone calls that tell you everything you want to hear. It’s better than being aware that he only remembers you because he couldn’t pick up anyone that night, and he was running out of options.
Making an effort to improve yourself is better than trying to keep a guy who will never give you anything in return. Do not waste your life on a man who will never be with you, but will break your heart. Do not spend your time on a man who will treat you like a backup plan, and who will be with you until he gets tired.
You deserve so much more.